The Working Momma

My previous post seems to have stirred up some trouble and I felt that I needed to explain a few things and that there would be the possibility of it being seen by a wider audience through a post rather than replying to a comment. I care if their feelings are hurt because I love them.  Some of the people involved are innocent.  You can’t chose your family. Not all of them did anything wrong yet what happened can still impact everyone’s lives.  It may not be easy for you to understand but no matter what has happened in the past, I will always love them, I might not like what has been done but I can’t change the past or who I am.  Those events in my life have changed and molded me into the person that I am, hopefully making me stronger. I am not asking for anyone to get along with each other or even forgive each other. I didn’t want anything from anyone when I wrote that. All I wanted was to be able to write down how I feel and what happened because it makes ME feel better. If other people are able to gain from what I wrote then so be it. I am tired of always trying to be the good daughter, sister and mother that doesn’t stir up trouble or say anything that could hurt anyone simply because I don’t want to cause problems. I am tired of trying to please everyone else at the expense of running myself ragged and sacrificing my own enjoyment/sanity.

The bottom line here is that the truth hurts and I am tired of trying to pretend that it never happened. It did. Don’t ever forget that it did but can’t life still go on?